Welcome to The Modern Dama, a lifestyle blog and my little corner of the internet where I spill all the tea (and sometimes, the entire kettle). My name is Denisse Montes Jones, a woman navigating the glorious chaos of modern life, one overshared anecdote at a time. Consider this lifestyle blog and me your digital bestie, who tells you when your lipstick is smudged (metaphorically and sometimes, literally) and celebrates your wins, big or small, with equal enthusiasm.
This blog is my attempt to make sense of the world, one post at a time. It’s a space where we can talk about all the things – the messy, the beautiful, the awkward, and everything in between. Because let’s face it, being a woman today is a multifaceted adventure, and we’re all just trying to figure it out as we go.
So, what can you expect to find here at The Modern Dama? A little bit of everything, really:
Career Chronicles: I’ve been a stay at home wife for close to 10 years now, and although blessed to be in that position, I yearn for more. This is me trying to figure that out. I’ll be sharing my experiences navigating the corporate jungle (and sometimes tripping over the vines), from networking tips and productivity hacks to dealing with difficult colleagues (we’ve all been there) and celebrating those hard-earned promotions. Expect honest conversations about work-life balance (or the lack thereof), the challenges of being a woman in the workplace, and the occasional rant about office coffee or whatever the hell working women talk about.
Relationship Ramblings: Love, dating, friendships – the whole shebang. I’m an open book (sometimes to a fault), so expect stories about my dating escapades (the good, the bad, and the hilariously awkward), insights into building strong relationships, and reflections on the joys and complexities of female friendships. We’ll talk about everything from ghosting and dating apps to navigating family dynamics and the importance of self-love. Consider this your safe space to vent about your own relationship rollercoaster.
Wellness Whispers: Taking care of ourselves is crucial, but let’s be real, it’s not always easy. Here, I’ll share my journey to a healthier and happier me, from my favorite workout routines (that I sometimes stick to) and healthy recipes (that I sometimes attempt) to discussions about mental health, self-care rituals, and the importance of setting boundaries. I’m no guru, but I’m learning along the way, and I’m happy to share what works (and what definitely doesn’t) for me.
Fashion Flair (and Fails): I love fashion, but I’m not a supermodel (far from it!). My style is a mix of classic pieces, trendy finds, and whatever makes me feel good. Expect outfit inspiration (and the occasional fashion faux pas – we all have them), styling tips, and reviews of my favorite brands (and budget-friendly finds). I believe that fashion should be fun and accessible to everyone, regardless of their size or budget.
Lifestyle Musings: This is where everything else goes! Think travel adventures (and misadventures), book recommendations, home decor inspiration (because my apartment is my sanctuary), recipes I’m loving (or attempting to recreate), and just general musings on life. Consider this the “everything and the kitchen sink” section of the blog, where I share the little things that make my life interesting (and hopefully, yours too).
So, grab a cup of coffee (or bourbon, no judgment here), get comfy, and join me on this adventure! I’m so glad you’re here. As your digital bestie, I hope we can navigate this crazy thing called life together, one overshared story at a time.
P.S. Don’t forget to follow me on social media, TikTok and Instagram, for even more oversharing and behind-the-scenes glimpses into my life. I can’t wait to connect with you!
